The Power of Words

Spoken or unspoken the power of words is too great for me to fully grasp as a mere human being. A single conversation or piece of writing has the potential of reaching hundreds, maybe even thousands. Words can build up or tear down. In order to execute the full power of my words in a healthy manner I need to look to the truth of God's word.

I had the opportunity this week to experience first hand exactly what is at stake with the power of my words. On Tuesday night I was headed out the door to take Morgan to dance practice. Trevor was pleading to go with me; however, since we were going to be picking out dance recital outfits and Brian was home I said NO. He became upset and insisted on walking me out the door in hopes that one last ditch effort of Mom being able to see his tear stained face and puppy dog eyes would change my mind. Feeling rather guilty my mind became focused on him as he waved from the door. As I waved big and goofy back to him in hopes of forgiveness I proceeded to put the car in reverse and backed right into our garage door! Ohhhh the power of words at that moment! In the words of Lysa Terkeurst Brian and I had a "growth opportunity" over my lack of attention to detail.

Well I wish I could be proud of my words spoken or unspoken, but choosing not to respect and listen to Brian and furthermore not speaking to him at all does not rank as one of my proudest moments. Feeling extremely guilty I turned to the truths of the words of God. As always God led me to the truths I needed to apply in my life.

Ephesians 4:26-32 "And don't sin be letting anger control you. Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil....Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them....Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you."

Ephesians 5:33 "....and the wife must respect her husband."

Although humility can be tough to swallow, I am ever grateful for the spoken and written words of God. I am thankful for his forgiveness and the opportunities for second chances. Thank you Lord for the power and truths of your word! And thank you to my gracious husband who is also forgiving and called one of our friends to fix the cosmetic damage to the inside of the garage door ♥

Hope and Psalm 62

"Let all that I am wait quietly before God, for my hope is in him. He alone is my rock and my salvation my fortress where I will not be shaken. My victory and honor come from God alone. He is my refuge, a rock where no enemy can reach me. O my people, trust in him at all times. Pour our your heart to him, for God is our refuge." Psalm 62: 5-8

I recently had the blessing of attending a tax seminar. Yes...you read correctly it was a wonderful blessing. Not only was the seminar packed full of information and had very entertaining speakers, but I also had the opportunity to enjoy a mini spiritual retreat for myself. I packed up my bible, a couple of books, my highlighters, pen, journal, and bath bubbles ready for relaxation and to soak up God's word.

Least you think I am some sort of good bible study girl, night #1 was filled with studying for the enrolled agent exam and watching one of my absolute favorite movies "Fried Green Tomatoes." Feeling a bit guilty I set my alarm to rise early enough for some quiet time...well I overslept and barely made it to the first day of the seminar on time. Whew!!!!

Night #2 I was determined to focus on HIM.  A little apprehensive since I had never done this before I wondered how this would work out. Will I be bored? Will I really be able to concentrate on The Word and sort out its meaning for my life? Where do I begin? Well I should never doubt the power of God. HE made everything so clear! HE directed me so clearly to the book I needed to start reading..."A Perfect Mess...Why You Don't Have to Worry About Being Good Enough for God" by Lisa Harper.  Rave reviews from Max Lucado and Priscilla Evan Shirer how could I go wrong? WOW!!! I highlighted things just from the introduction....now that really gets me excited about reading a book! This book is taking me through a journey of Psalms (one of my favorite books of the bible). Just in reading the introduction and the first chapter God directed me to a place of  HOPE and Psalm 62, which was already massively filled with highlighted markings. I was brought to tears just by the working of God to lead me to this book and to place this piece of scripture upon my heart. I can't wait to see what He has in store for me through out the rest of this book. I will keep you posted!

Needless to say I came home with a renewed sense of HOPE and two bags full of goodies I found from the second hand store next to my hotel, which included a video copy of "Fried Green Tomatoes" for $.99 ♥ God is good ♥

Bear with me still not techno savvy to figure out how to click on the picture and it will take you to the video so just click on the link below the picture and figure it out from there...hehehehe



Hope Now by Addison Road

31 Day Love Challenge

My personal goal for 2011 was to be devoted to the relationships in my life. After my relationship with God, I wanted to work on my relationship with my husband. I love my hubby very much and truly desire to be the very best wife I can possibly be. In addition to reading a fabulous book, "What Is It Like To Be Married to Me?" by Linda Dillow (I highly recommend. Thanks Al) I have also been doing some blog hopping. I recently came across the Time Warp Wife. She is daring those who are brave enough to take the 31 Day Love Challenge.  Brian and I just celebrated 12 years of marriage on October 2nd! What a perfect opportunity to help me in my devotion to Brian and a perfect gift for me to give! (especially since gift giving is not my strength)

I invite you to join me on this challenge and share with me any tips you may have to keeping the love alive!

Introducing the "New" Me

Well as they use to call the incoming freshman at our high school I am a "greenie" to the blogging world, and I hope there aren't any initiations involved :) I have been inspired and encouraged by some many Christian women and mothers out there who share their journey. There is no doubt that through their sharing I have been changed and continue on my own journey to becoming a better Christian, wife, and mom. One fellow blogger in particular has truly been a blessing in my life, www.lovenmama.blogspot.com. Although classmates in high school, modern technology and a spiritual hand has brought us together. Through our connection with each other I have met some fabulous Jesus sisters who support me in my walk of faith and challenge me to dig deeper. As a result of all this I have found myself in an unusual position. Pushing myself to step out of my box and put myself out there as a young, yes I still consider myself young, woman whose inner desire is to be more bold in sharing the good news of Christ. So here I am. I ask for patience as I am not a techno savvy person, but I am excited to share my experiences and thoughts with you. My life is never dull ♥

Special thanks to my Jesus sister "Al" for your inspiration and encouragement ♥