Spoken or unspoken the power of words is too great for me to fully grasp as a mere human being. A single conversation or piece of writing has the potential of reaching hundreds, maybe even thousands. Words can build up or tear down. In order to execute the full power of my words in a healthy manner I need to look to the truth of God's word.
I had the opportunity this week to experience first hand exactly what is at stake with the power of my words. On Tuesday night I was headed out the door to take Morgan to dance practice. Trevor was pleading to go with me; however, since we were going to be picking out dance recital outfits and Brian was home I said NO. He became upset and insisted on walking me out the door in hopes that one last ditch effort of Mom being able to see his tear stained face and puppy dog eyes would change my mind. Feeling rather guilty my mind became focused on him as he waved from the door. As I waved big and goofy back to him in hopes of forgiveness I proceeded to put the car in reverse and backed right into our garage door! Ohhhh the power of words at that moment! In the words of Lysa Terkeurst Brian and I had a "growth opportunity" over my lack of attention to detail.
Well I wish I could be proud of my words spoken or unspoken, but choosing not to respect and listen to Brian and furthermore not speaking to him at all does not rank as one of my proudest moments. Feeling extremely guilty I turned to the truths of the words of God. As always God led me to the truths I needed to apply in my life.
Ephesians 4:26-32 "And don't sin be letting anger control you. Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil....Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them....Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you."
Ephesians 5:33 "....and the wife must respect her husband."
Although humility can be tough to swallow, I am ever grateful for the spoken and written words of God. I am thankful for his forgiveness and the opportunities for second chances. Thank you Lord for the power and truths of your word! And thank you to my gracious husband who is also forgiving and called one of our friends to fix the cosmetic damage to the inside of the garage door ♥
